For as long as I can remember, I’ve always wanted to be a blonde. And not your average, everyday blonde but a platinum blonde, the fairest of them all. So six months ago after celebrating my 60th birthday I thought, what am I waiting for. Follow along on my journey from brunette to platinum to…who knows?
What I learned before going platinum blonde
I’ve done a lot of research on bleaching your hair platinum and these are the main points I learned:
- Going from brunette to platinum is a long process
- It’s very expensive to go from brunette to platinum
- Your hair will get damaged from the bleach
- You will have to lose some or a lot of length
- Blonde hair is high maintenance
This was the best article I found on the subject: Here is everything you need to know about going platinum blonde
Going blonde in a photo first
Before taking the plunge I also wanted to see how I’d look as a blonde so I went on one of those sites where you can upload your picture and try on celebrity hairstyles. Here’s one of the photos. Not quite the right color but it looked pretty good.
Talking to the stylist
I’ve never had my hair bleached or dyed at a salon. Up to this point I’d been dyeing it myself using Wella Color Charm demi permanent dye in dark natural brown. But going blonde, especially platinum, is a job best left to a professional so I found a good stylist.
I went into the salon with about three inches of gray roots hanging out. My stylist, a young lady about half my age, thought my brunette locks were aging (thank you very much) and she was all for bleaching it to the silvery blonde color I’ve been dreaming about. I also told her I wanted to incorporate my natural gray hair into it. She said as it grew out she would weave the roots into the blonde.
The progression from brunette to platinum
The first step to going blonde was to use a color remover. Since I’d only been using demi permanent color, I thought that dark brown would come right out. It didn’t.
On the first visit, I started off looking like this…
And came out looking like that.
I think she used 10 volume developer and bleached it twice after the color remover which turned it brunette with red highlights.
One week later, the second round of bleach left me looking like this. Not sure if she used 10 or 20 vol. this time.
The color doesn’t look so bad in the picture, but in person the red tones looked awful. My dog was happy because we looked like twinsies.
That color is perfect on him, not so great on me.
Another week later, I got the mother of all bleach jobs with 40 vol. developer. I hated this brassy, yucky yellow color.
Not only that, my hair felt like straw and looked like cheap synthetic hair from a doll whose hair has been used as a scrub brush. I was horrified. So was my stylist and she performed a deep conditioning treatment one week later.
One month after that, a fourth round of gentler bleaching occurred to try and eliminate the yellow and brassiness. She used an ash blonde toner and it looked like this.
I loved this color! I thought it was so pretty but the lovely silvery tone washed right out, leaving me once again with the awful yellow.
I now know that “toner” is a word for color that washes out in one shampoo. I like that silvery shade and I still don’t know why I can’t get it permanently.
Two months of feeling washed out by the paleness of my hair and also tired of looking at the yellow and brass tones, I asked my stylist to make it a light ash blonde. She foiled half of my hair with an ash blonde/gray color and no bleach on the rest of it, finishing with the same ash blonde toner used before.
And this is what happened.
Holy moly! It’s straight up gray! This time I prayed the color would wash out fast, and it did.
Another two months passed and I got my roots bleached and woven into the blonde, followed by the ash blonde toner. My gray roots blend in nicely.
Once again, I thought this was a nice color but it didn’t last.
The aftermath of going platinum blonde
After all the bleaching, my hair is coarse and evidently does not hold color very well, except for that persistent dreadful yellow. My stylist says I’m going to have to cut a lot off and bleach it again to get the color I want. Still thinking about that one as I’ve already cut about 12 inches off my hair since this whole thing started because the ends keep breaking off and looking ragged.
This is what happens when I brush my hair.
The journey to platinum is still a work in progress. More updates to follow.
What do you think, do you like my brunette or blonde hair better? Please let me know in the comments below.